How to Use a 'Double Declutter' to Get What You Want

Most self-help gurus & coaches will agree that a clearing process must take place during the manifesting process. Some say it should happen before you even know what you want (or are willing to write it down) and some say that it should happen after you are clear on what you want.

This is where the double-declutter is amazing for taking care of both sides of the equation. Here would be the sequence:

  1. As you prepare to go for and get what you desire, do the physical and digital spaces declutter. This creates energetic space in important ways. You can read about decluttering doing the time of the c-word, to know the 5 ways it helps people and the 5 ways it just helped me. It doesn’t have to be time consuming- just enough to make you feel spacious.

  2. Get clear on what you want and write it down.

  3. Declutter your mind! From there the declutter that happens is mostly about what happens in your own head. Clearing & reframing negative thoughts, changing beliefs, and simplifying your thoughts around your desires gets you better aligned with what you want. If you think ‘I’m too old to start an acting career’ or ‘How could I want a lush garden when I kill everything that is green?’, you can learn how to get down to ground zero, no energetic clutter around that. About the acting one, I would disprove that one with real world proof that age doesn’t matter or I would simply say ‘Even though I’m old, I’m starting an acting career’ and simplify it that way. I would love to teach you how to quickly eliminate, disprove, reframe and replace limiting beliefs. It’s become essential education in the 3MM.

  4. Become who you need to be now; be in the energy and mindset of someone who already has what you desire. Think, what you would do if it was already yours? You can use movement and pleasure to create positive and open feelings, here or Step 6.

  5. Do what is in your power. Take a step in the direction of your goal (or what this new energy makes you wanna do next)

  6.  Let go. Be endlessly patient, reminding yourself that you have elements of what you want right now. You can either cultivate the feeling of it being real, or chances are that you actually have a version of this somewhere in your life. Stay grateful. Again you can lock in the letting go with any pleasurable or high-vibrational activity.

  7. And repeat as many of these as you need, ensuring that you always do what is in your power and eventually let go.  

Recently (2021), I wrote in-depth about what it is like to declutter in this new world (spoiler: it is hard right now!), but I’ve given you some advice for when you can’t physically give away stuff (not what you would expect).

You can read about it here.

Tell me about your double-declutter and if you need help with Step 3, email hello@beckyshortt.com and ask me about it. Happy manifesting!

Becky

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